Tuesday, April 25, 2017

Jiro Dreams of Sushi









"Get obsessed and stay obsessed" THE HOTEL NEW HAMPSHIRE.
I've worked with volunteering since I was a kid. My parents raised my sister and I to do community volunteerism whether it was with environmental issues or with humanist issues. Sometimes through civic approaches (Greenpeace) sometimes through spiritual approaches (religious groups or meditation retreats). One of the things I have noticed living in the United States is that many people in the city do not seem to understand that there is a potential for ecstasy when doing volunteer work. This is especially true in the disciplines I grew up practicing within Hinduism and Buddhism. Many Buddhists I have worked with for decades...in Canada...we would fight to be the first one to wash a floor, clean a toilet. It was considered so lame to just wipe off a counter or type a letter. The dirtier and more labour intensive the better the possibility for excitement and sublime peak experience. Working with a group of other people also taught to feel happy emotions while volunteering for Habitat For Humanity, or building a stage for the Dalai Lama...we would stay up all night and work work work. The Sanskrit word (yes there is a word for this!) is upaya. I have had that experience at my friend's church for born-agains. But the surprise of working with several different Buddhist organizations in Chicago and hearing people name-calling or complaining about the work, or not volunteer at all...is something I was very much experienced a cultural shock. People have tended to volunteer to do work that is familiar to their carreer...or puts them in a position of power...not realizing that the more crazy stuff you do always you to take a risk and be vulnerable...taking the ego off guard...and expediting an opportunity for a profound experience.Why don't people want to have fun working together outside of their jobs? A mystery!! One of the things about doing Cook It Forward...was to try to teach and share the bliss of working for a cause that was't for one's ego. And to see if that concept could be introduced or at least hinted at. I believe we did have some success...while serving unhoused persons. This is not a merit based thing...it is a spirit thing...learning an attitude of doing suffering work and feeling like you can laugh about it or bond. And here comes a documentary...that has gripped me. I thank my friend Greg for suggesting this movie. What a revelation. The documentary JIRO DREAMS OF SUSHI introduces an idea to mainstream American culture through Netflix of a fascinating artisan concept of shokunin. It's a little tiny bit like the Sanskrit word upaya which means skillful means. The idea that work done while applying very intense emotion and labour to details....to mindfulness....and it giving one a life lesson....is similar to the lessons in Robert Pirsig's book ZEN AND THE ART OF MOTORCYCLE MAINTENANCE. The idea that a practice can give a person a set of philosophical, mindfulness skills is one that is slowly becoming an idea in the United States, but it's not just here... Contemporary industrial society everywhere has lost this relationship with the art of practice and enlightenment. (or if you prefer self-awareness, self-examination, transforming if one needs to transform.)The negative side to studying and practicing a craft could be called "tunnel vision"...however...all of the artists I know have only had the best attitude to making paintings or writing and sculpture. It is the combination of attitude and work...to align the work of the body to the spirit of the will. Here is a very interesting breakdown of the Japanese word shokunin, as well as the trailer for this documentary. I will probably watch it five more times.
"1. A serious attitude toward one’s work
2. Aspiration to improve – to strive for perfection
3. Cleanliness (which includes a proper order in one’s life and work)
4. Lead rather than collaborate
5. Bring passion to one’s work, (and through that passion to discover moments of ecstasy)"
Marahiro Yamamoto

Monday, March 27, 2017

Painting With Shakespeare

 I am watching a 2009 version of LOVE'S LABOUR'S LOST filmed at The Globe. And I'm making a few paintings.




Tuesday, March 21, 2017

Two Excellent Articles

"Why is my life so hard"



"Most of us feel we face more headwinds and obstacles than everyone else — which breeds resentment. We also undervalue the tailwinds that help us — which leaves us ungrateful and unhappy. How can we avoid this trap?"




"Taking a big picture view, hedonistic sustainability is what happens when you stop thinking about buildings as structures and start thinking about them as ecosystems."

  • Hedonistic Sustainability


  • From Freakonomics
  • Why is my life so hard?


  • BBQ At The Buddhist Temple Of Chicago




    Monday, February 27, 2017

    Guest Speaker


    Dr. Shabana Mir was a guest speaker for Interfaith Sunday Service at the Buddhist Temple of Chicago yesterday. Dr. Mir visited the temple from the American Islamic College and she told some very good stories and shared her personal narrative of being Muslim. One story she told was so insightful and puts perspective on how culture changes. She told us about an uncle of hers who moved to South Carloina from Pakistan in the 1950's. Her uncle, who everyone called Mo, was a tennis player and everyone knew him as the "brown guy who played tennis". Her Uncle Mo became interested in a woman he met and he wanted to date her. Since it was the 1950's Mo wanted too be very respectful so he went to the girls parents and asked to speak to them and have their permission to date their daughter. Mo meets with the girls mother who asks him questions. She asks, "What religion are you?" Mo answers, "Muslim." The mother says, "What's that?" and so Mo briefly explains his faith and ...the mother says, "So you're not Catholic?" "No" says Mo. The girls mother says, "Okay you can date my daughter." Part of this delightful story was to demonstrate how fluid religion is and how relationships and attitudes to religion change depending not on religion or faith, but on our various cultures and our culture's beliefs. Dr. Mir was very thoughtful and a charming speaker bringing anthropology and her own personal life into her lecture.

    Friday, February 24, 2017

    Answers To Random-Assed Questions

    These questions are from The Shameful Sheep
    and 27th Street blogs....

    1) Who are you named for?
    My dad's first car, a Hillman Minx.

    2) Do you like your handwriting?
    Half of the time....if I can take time to write....but after so many years on the computer I find it exhausting to hand write and I feel like I have forgotten how

    3) What is your favourite lunchmeat?
    Turkey

    4) Longest relationship?
    With my husband Stagg

    5) Do you still have your tonsils?
    Yes

    6)Would you bungee jump?
    No fucking way (However I have been known to ski so it's not like I don't like adventure)

    7) Do you untie your shoes when you take them off?
    Most of the time

    8) What is your favourite ice cream?
    Chocolate

    9) What is the first thing you notice about people?
    I don't know. I guess body language.

    10) Football or baseball?
    Meh. Hockey. I'll watch almost any sport if it's in playoffs though.

    11) What colour pants are you wearing?
    Bright green velour

    12) Last thing you ate?
    Open-faced cheese and avocado sandwich

    13) If you were a crayon what colour would you be?
    Purple

    14) Favourite smell?
    Coffee. Followed by roses, gardenias, vanilla...

    15) Who was the last person you spoke to on the phone?
    Vivien a community organizer

    16) Hair colour?
    Blonde

    17) Eye colour?
    Blue

    18) Favourite foods to eat?
    Artichokes, pomegranates, nachos, curries

    19) Scary movies or happy endings?
    Yep


    20) Last movie you watched?
    Now You See Me 2

    21) Favourite holiday?
    Halloween!

    22 Beer or wine?
    Yes

    23) Night owl or early bird?
    Night owl. I can totally function in the morning but I'm faking it.

    24) Favourite day of the week?
    Don't have one

    25) Which three of your favourite bloggers do you want to know more about?
    I don't want to put anyone in a spot, so I don't usually tag....but I would love to read my blogger friends answers t this...so if you do this list, let me know in the comments please.




    Wednesday, February 15, 2017

    How Do We Talk?

    A few of us are facilitating an event where people who are concerned with the lack of communication between different voters can share perspectives with each other.

    Gathering people who voted for Clinton, people who voted for Trump, people who voted for Stein or Johnson, people who wanted Sanders and compromised to vote for someone else….people who voted for Green party, Democrats, Republicans, or refused to vote at all….to share what they believe and think in a friendly, respectful manner, We will meet and agree as a group on ground rules for discussion and have a professional facilitator chair the discussion so everyone has a voice. 

    Most people every where around the world want the best for their family and friends. Wanting the best for our family and friends is a a natural appropriate emotion and need. But it seems many of us disagree on how to achieve that wish. How do we communicate and find out our differences and our common ground? Let’s meet in person and humanize our opposing views.


    This gathering has the potential to be a door opening and a chance for us to begin dialogue. We might even be able to set a recurring meet up to reach out to more people or inspire more people to open such discussions. Please consider joining us. Message Candy Minx to RSVP. Location to be messaged back to participants only.


    You can find out more here at Facebook...and RSVP to me via Fb messages if you want to participate.

    Facebook Event

    Is It Possible?

    Something I've been wondering about...and it's difficult for me to vocalize...because in the emotional mood people saying or taking one indelicate step...can anger each other so easily. My voicing a different perspective on friendship, communication and politics...has actually cost me some friends. I guess I found out that the people I thought were cool...were actually not cool...they were very rigid in their ways of thinking and not able to disagree compassionately. Not a fun lesson to learn about people one thought were friends. 
    So I proceed understanding I am vulnerable...but I am also strong enough to risk being vulnerable. I believe the only way to create social change and to participate in a revolution is by being vulnerable.
    My query is....is it possible that the political climate right now...might be the first time some citizens have ever experienced political and social betrayal? Is it possible...that part of the split we are witnessing in this civil war between the country and the city....and people who people other people are stupid versus the so-called "stupid" belieiving the others are "selfish". Yes, it seems there is a split between one group believes the other is stupid...and the other group believes the others are selfish.
    Is it possible that President Agent Orange (thank you Busta Rymes) has triggered a sense of failure and betrayal to a group of the population that has never experienced such betrayal before?
    I see a kind of difference in the older senior population...they literally approach the political climate as "business as usual" i
    n the United States. Yes, they think there is a sense of chaos and speed to the outrage on social media.....but they also say..."this is politics, it's been like this for a long time" where...the younger people I know...have a sense of feeling so betrayed. Is it possible that the people who are older....have lived through Vietnam, Reagan, Clinton, Bush Sr and W and so many tramatic administrative crisis that they feel less optimistic and they never expected a positive outcome from an election? Many of this group I have interviewed perceive the last administration s failing in many ways too. The idea of politics and "hope" is naive to them.
    An example I use came across was the sorrow expressed to me about a five year old boy bing put in handcuffs a few days ago and separated from his parents for five hours. I was so surprised that would be upsetting to anyone here in the United States...because where I sit...thats business as usual for the United States. I know people here who were traumatized by a young child being ripped away from their family by SWAT team and confiscated and deported. 
    Is the outrage about politics right now....partly a case of more people coming to understand how many people IN THE PAST felt about a President and their administration tearing a child away from their family by a SWAT team? Is it possible that a new generation that may have either not been so engaged in feeling betrayed by government and politics..either because they were too young to witness Vietnam, or Clintons sexual predatoriness, or Bush W. obsession with war, or a Sat team confiscating a child...is now seeing these kinds of events for the first time...and feel this is "new" a new outrage a new corruption. For many U.S. citizens...they have lost hope with politicians and government a long time ago. part of the civil war might be that more people are feeling betrayed....but they disagree on what that exact betrayal is for each other?

    Sunday, February 05, 2017

    A Painting In The Works

     Here is a small commissioned painting I have been making. It's not finished yet...but close...





    A Make Up Plug

     If you feel like trying something new...here is some facial and cosmetic products I use and sell. The skin and foundation tools are really incredible. https://www.youniqueproducts.com/CandyMinx1/business/presenterinfo#.WJdBUxjMxcA


    Friday, February 03, 2017

    More Reno Pics

     The place is looking more and more amazing. It will be fun to post a before and after....soon...



    My Artist Site

     I've got my Artist Site up and running. If you wondered what my short films look like, or what I have written for conferences...you can see them here: Candy Art Site

    Thursday, February 02, 2017

    Renovation At Work

    I work part time at an Italian American restaurant down the street from where we live in Pilsen. They have been closed for renovations....but it's really getting close to re-opening! I'm excited to get back to bartending there. These pics are the first week of demolition.


    Tuesday, January 31, 2017

    Women's March Chicago













    Biting Each Other

    I am very sad about the canabalizing of feminism. It's been through the last 6 months through the heat of the election till now. Feminism is not a patriarchy, yet, people are acting as if it is. We have so many unique personal perspectives on issues and not one of them can emerge if they are approached competitively: Feminism's base is an ethical base. It is patriarchy and corporatism that believes in hierarchy. When educational facilities become corporate they anoint their students with corporate entitlement. 
    Where is the wisdom for the person who is "more informed" to use that skill to reach out and be more patient? Isn't there an ethical responsibility where having "more information" means needing to have more responsibility for communicating clearly and kindly? What is the value of having a so-called education if it comes without walking the higher road...and seeing it as a responsibility to be more communicative and more patient than those one deems "uniformed"?
    Feminism offers an opportunity to practice ethics. Each woman finding a way to listen to each other despite the urge to compete for one's own personal agenda. I am an outsider...I fall into a small group of feminists whose focus is on the environment, animals and economic re-distribution. It's very difficult to find a politician who represents those issues, and many people have taken umbrage with me because I feel the environmental issues are the ethical and scientific structure to frame all issues. (I've been bitten by some canibal feminists.) One of the hierarchies at work right now is the war between the city and the country. Where I sit, it is the utter breakdown of an ethical perspective. It seems as if people do not know how to argue without making personal attacks or dismissive choices of words...and that is a problem. 
    We need to protect not just the land of the countryside...but also the people who reside in the countryside. The ethics of our whole situation are that we need to embrace all the issues...wholistically and be able to see that people in the countryside are suffering terribly. They are poor and feel no one is listening to them. We need to find a way to get food and livelihood to people in both the countryside and in the cities...the two areas of the culture need to begin to cross-over and communicate. We need a way to protect medical needs AND environmental needs AND ethical needs. It's too easy for higher educated people to feel superior to those they believe are "ignorant" or "rural" (code word for stupid). The lack of compassion towards those people who one deems "uniformed" are systemic of the way education has become a commodity and excuse for entitlement. The educated need to find a way to communicate with those people who may or may not use the same vernacular. What is the purpose of getting "informed" if one uses it as a hierarchy to dismiss others.

    Wednesday, January 18, 2017

    Making Beef Stew For Unhoused Persons

     Stagg and I made beef and cabbage stew the other day to take out to people living outside. We often go to the viaducts on the northside....but we also take hot food out in the southside. Stagg led the way with a cooler filled with servings. Some people live in nooks, doorways, loading docks and under an auto service car port.







    Holiday With Family